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Decoding You

Erotic Templates


An Erotic Template outlines the feelings, behaviors, identities, and unique interests of the individual sexually.

Everyone interested in engaging sexually has their own unique erotic template. Like a painter's palette, each individual chooses what they like sexually, when and how they want to engage, and in what combinations.

NOTE: Below is an example of what one person's Erotic Template might look like... yours will be unique to you.

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Visiting Sex Workers

Role Play

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Erotic Template Identities:

Aspects of your erotic template can create more defined sexual identities such as tops, bottoms, vers, switch, side, stone, brats, vanilla, and pillow princesses. Some folks find this helpful in identifying sexually compatible partners or expanding their own sexual understanding.

Erotic Template Tidbits to keep in mind

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Don't be afraid to explore
your pleasure

  •  Interests may shift with different partners or may not

  • Some folks erotic interests define aspects of their identity like KINK

  • Many folks have not been encouraged to explore and embrace their erotic templates, however knowing what you do and don’t like is an important foundation for ones Sexual Sense of Self and pleasure

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02 SLIDES

​Interested in learning about possible sexual activities to consider? Check out this resource.

For KINK Specific erotic interests - 

CHAPTERS

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GLOSSARY

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